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writes:I told my close female friend that i really liked her and she told me lets just be friends for now and that she wanted to focus on her studies so now i'm trying to keep my distance from her however now she keeps talking to me alot more than she used to and keeps trying to touch me i.e. punching or grabbing my arm and we talk for hours on msn. on her fb status she put that she is very confused. i told her that i went out on a coffee date a few days ago and now she keeps askiing if i'm going on another one? whats going on with her??shes muslim if that helps?
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reader, CaliMoore +, writes (2 March 2010):
 Ahh i've been in this situation quite a few times, more than i had liked if im honest. Eventhough she told you she just wanted to be friends, doesnt mean she doesnt neccessarily have feelings for you; you telling her how you feel about her may make her realise how she really feels. I know thats how it was in my case.
Also her finding out you've been on a date or more would make her think "oh he likes me.. oh he got over me fast?" and if she has now realised she likes you, hearing that will upset her.
Why dont you ask her out on a casual date, something you'd do with anyone, that wont make it seem like a formal date. Something two 'just friends' would do. See how she acts with you, and try and develop your relationship. And if you become convinced that she likes you, then tell her how you feel once more and see what happens.
Good luck :) i hope this helps, keep in touch and let me know how you get on. Message me if you'd like to talk more x
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