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writes:i dont really know how to explain this so im just gonna come out with it. me n my mate are really close like brother and sister recently he has split up with his girlfriend n recently he keeps asking for things like blow jobs sex and other things, he knows i have a boyfriend n i keep turning him down, then the other day he told me he loved me n wanted to go out with me and make a real go at it. i love my boyfriend so much and wouldnt do any thing to hurt him, but i like my mate like a brother n dont want to lose that friendship ive tryed explaining it all to him but hes not taking the hints even when i tell him strait how do i make him see that we are just friends?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (31 January 2010):
You can't because you are not just friends. He is not your friend. He is a guy who wants to be in your pants. There is no level of friendship there now because he has crossed the line.
You have to be strict with male friends. If they cross that line then you have to cut contact till they are over it. Sad but true.
If you want to commit to your boyfriend then do it and tell this guy to leave you alone.
Good Luck!! xx
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