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*ara5002
writes:My fiancee of 3 years broke up with me last october, and i cant get him off my mind. He broke up with me for someone else and is still with her. I know i should move on, but i cant!! Basically i suppose i am saying that i am still in love with him. What can i do to move on???
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (22 March 2008):
 Tell yourself that you are the master of your own happiness.
You do not have to depend on him for your happiness.
Without him , you can still lead a happy life.
Before he came into your life, you were happy
and you can be happy as you were before him.
Take back control over your life!
Today , you can do whatever you wish and be free.
You are born free and not a born loser!
Don't love a born loser.
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reader, citris  +, writes (21 March 2008):
 Best answer, take the time you need for yourself. I know it's hard, i've been there myself. It's different for everyone honestly, however I found that immersing myself in my friends and family helped alot. Also what kind of things did you do before you were in this relationship with him? Get back to being yourself, the you that was happy before he entered your life. Maybe in time you'll find it doesn't hurt so much, maybe he'll realize his mistake, more than likely however there was something missing from the relationship that he found elsewhere whether you were aware of it or not. I know it sounds trite, but when one door closes another opens, your heart hasn't closed the door on this relationship, but when it does, there'll be something even better waiting for you at another door. Remembering that helped me too, hopefully some of what I've said might help you. Best of luck, and remember, anyone who doesn't love you with all their heart doesn't deserve all of your heart.
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