A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi, i am 22 and my boyfriend is 20. We were living with roommates so our sex life was scheduled around when they were gone. We just moved into our own house and I thought it would get better, but we still don't have sex as much as we used to. What can I do to make him want to do it more? I feel like he is not attracted to me anymore but he says he is.
View related questions:
moved in, roommate, sex life Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, Merchant  +, writes (18 May 2007):
Could be that his sex drive is not as strong as yours. Men sometimes need to be told that women are in the 'mood'. We have a simple signal method. Have some candles in the bedroom. If you fancy making love, light them. Equally, if he wants it get him to light the candle. My wife tends to light the candles every night as she has a very strong sex drive. I just try to keep up with her. It sounds like your bloke is just getting used to it all. I am sure with time, your candle will be lit, in more ways that one!
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2007): is he stressed? tired from work/school? does he have depression? is something bothering him? you should talk to him. good communication is key to a successful relationship.
...............................
|
