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writes:hey thanks for you time im just looking for any advice, i dont really have much to turn to...my situation is as follows.. i met Brandi before i can remember, we have been together since childhood and were always childhood sweethearts. about 2 1/2 years ago we began seeing each other seriously for the first time after being apart for a few years. things were great for quite awhile. we were deeply in love, we were engaged to marry and we had made alot of dreams for the future. about a month ago, i was being foolish and we got into a dumb argument,and i yelled at her. shortly thereafter she informed me she had been unhappy for quite awhile and that everything was off and she wanted to move out. i talked her into staying and trying to work it out. looking back on our relationship i was very ignorant for quite awhile and i didnt treat her as well as i could have. two weeks have gone by and ive been trying to do everything that i can think of but she informed me it wasnt working and she is moving out as soon as she can afford to. im just desperately seeking any advice that may work. i love this woman more than anything else in my life and i will do anything to help make her happy. i want a second chance to fix this im just not sure if its too late. i just dont want to lose this woman she is my world. any help with my problem would be greatly appreciated. thank you.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (18 July 2008):
If she has fallen out of love with you then there is really nothing you can do about it.
But if she has any feelings left then just work out what attracted her to you and push that. If she loved your nights out together then take her out, if she loved the fact you were caring then bring her home flowers from work.
You must have done something to catch her eye in the first place... work hard at showing her you want to be her perfect men, but don't be clingy and put her in a situation where she feels she HAS to stay.
If your relationship has come to an end then you just have to accept and move on.
Good Luck!! xx
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