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anonymous
writes:Hey Well theres this girl that i really really like and we are really close she tells me everything. Well she broke up with her boyfriend about a month ago and we have been really close since. We have seen movies and that together and lets me feel her up and hug and hold her sending me photos etc, so i asked her out and she said she needed to think about it after a few weeks of this her thinking she said no saying she didnt want a relationship yet and wanted to stay friends maybe in the future and all those things well because i still really like her i have been getting jealous at certain things and she said that she loves me but as a friend that she doesnt get that buzz with me. when i asked her wat about me makes her not feel that way she said she honestly doesnt know she says that im always nice to ehr and that we get along rly well but she just doenst get that buzz so my question is what can i do to create that buzz??? or is it something that is either there or isnt here and i can do anything to change it???
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2010): Hey
She knows exactly how i feel for her and ive mentioned other girls in conversation and shes told me that she feels jealous but still thinks we should just be friends i dont know what to say cos i told her ill still be there for her vene if we go out nothing will chane but sh still thinks that we should just be friends i dont get it im alayws nice to her and had a fight wif her ex s i dont get why she only wants to be friends i knowthat there is noone tht cares for her more than i do cos i gte upset or anxious if i dont talk to her for like half a day
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2010): Move on. You were the rebound while she was getting over her ex. She used you for companionship to distract her from feeling anything. While she may remain a friend, you need to get over her and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2010): i think she's not feeling the buzz because she thinks of you as more of a brother figure.
maybe give her some space, try bringing up other girls in conversations with her and look for any reactions
if she likes you she will be feeling slightly jealous which will show in her replies
failing this, just tell her honestly how much you care and what you feel about her. make sure she knows you'll treat her right and be there for her.
in the end though, it all comes down to whether you value your friendship over a possible relationship which might not work out. i'm not saying you shouldn't go for it but just you should be sure of what you want
good luck!
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