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writes:hi,my best friend and my girlfriend have started talking a lot (they didn't know eachother at first. the only thing is that its making me go crazy, knowing that my friend is flirting with my girlfriend and i know exactly what hes like. im so worried im gonna lose my girlfriend to him. now i get angry at stupid things and i can't help it. i don't know what to do, any advice?
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (17 October 2007):
Tell him to knock it off. Moving on a guy's girl is not the actions of a friend. Likewise, a girlfriend doesn't flirt with other guys.
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reader, rcn +, writes (17 October 2007):
 The advise I have is this: If he's a friend, he'd respect the relationship between you and your girlfriend. I'd tell him, flirt with my girlfriend, then you and I aren't friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2007): i went out with a girl around 2 years ago, she broke up with me and went with a close 'friend' of mine. someone who i had known since i was a toddler, whom i went to school with. i was devistated of course and still dont approve of what happened, or never will. but i learned so much more about her after time and now i understand that she just goes with anyone. she gets bored of people really quick and moves from person to person, thats not the type of girl i want and i realise i am better away from her.
i know it can make you angry, upset and can put you off balance but you need to keep your head clear, so you are able to see it in the best way you can. if she is willing to do anything with your friend like this while she is with you or even after she has broken up with you, then you must understand for that reason alone that the relationship will be nothing but problems. let alone any other problems that might pop up. hopefully what happened to me wont happen to you, it may amount to nothing and could be harmless. but if it does, stay proud, carry on, move on, find another girlfriend and realise that you deserve much better.
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