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female
age
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anonymous
writes:I am a healthy, attractive 66 year old female who is being ardently courted by a very handsome 33 year old male. That is a big age gap!What can this man possibly see in me? Reply to this Question
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male
reader, Serpico  +, writes (9 July 2012):
First, second, and third things I thought were
1) Money
2) Money
and
3) Money
A
female
reader, Denise32 +, writes (9 July 2012):
 You have given us very little information about this man. Do you WANT him to pursue you??
Attractive or not, he could be after your money. be very, very cautious........
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female
reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (9 July 2012):
 Tell me about this courting OP.
How much time do you two spend together?
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A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2012): Are you rich? More detail on the situation is requried for a thorough assessment.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2012): It could be money,if it's not an issue, then may be he just likes you
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2012): "What can this man possibly see in me?"
The same thing any man with any woman of any age really OP. Look you can analyze it or you can enjoy it but of course taking the usual mental and emotional precautions that you have to with any male suitor.
Age gap presents many challenges of course but I see no reason why he can't be attracted to in all ways, have you seen Tina Turner lately? and she's 72.
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female
reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (9 July 2012):
have you asked him?
if you don't have a lot of money and your not being a sugar momma... maybe you just have a lot in common and he likes you?
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female
reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (9 July 2012):
 It is a big age gap, but you likely have the maturity of mind and spirit that this particular gentleman may need. That, or he is a gold-digger, but you have mentioned nothing about being filthy rich, so I assume it is the former. I think age offers a lot of things youth doesn't. I think someone outside of his age group may offer him piece of mind. You know yourself, you know your own mind, you know what you want out of life and what you want out of your relationships, and you're not afraid of being who you are and doing what you want. Someone in his peer group may not necessarily know what she wants or who she is yet. You likely have a life already, so he does not have to concern himself with being a provider...he can be an equal. Honestly, I tend to enjoy being with men older than myself because they have the maturity, common decency, respect, gentleness, and unapologetic masculinity that men my age are often times lacking. Don't sell yourself short. Just because you're 66 doesn't mean anything in this day and age. Just be careful he's not looking for a Sugar Mama and you'll be fine!
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