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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): The more suspicious you appear to me, the more careful he will be with his lies.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2008): You say, soon to be husband. If you dont trust him now then you never will. Dont ever get married to someone unless you are 100% certain that he is the right one for you. some people are so good at lying that is it impossible to catch them out. I can often tell by the way a person answers. If they give you no eye contact or they cannot look at you then that is a good sign. Also they fluff their words and get flustered easily. Another is when they go somewhere and you ask them if they have had a good time and their answer is a bit sketchy. I have been around professional liar for a lot of my life, so i know some of the signs but some people are so bloody good.
take care
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reader, q1605 +, writes (31 March 2008):
 I don't know specific gestures other than them acting like a cat on a hot tin roof. But if you get the feel that he is lying he probably is. I can also tell you that over the years I've seen a pattern of the same old lame shit being offered up to lie about the same old lame bull shit and I've heard them so long in my relationships or others to the extent that I can not only tell you if they are lying I can pretty well tell you what they are trying to lie about.Womens gay friends they have around while your relationship with her is in transition. Not gay. Is doing her and is only fuck buddy. Any thing shady that tangentially involves your boyfriend. He is guilty of whatever he is being accused of. If a woman says they kissed he felt her up. If she says he felt her up they fucked. If she says they fucked ...you don't want to know
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reader, mikey_m  +, writes (31 March 2008):
I think you need to rely on your instincts. We all get weird paranoid thoughts sometimes, but if your state of mind is generally OK, and something just doesn't seem genuine or heartfelt, you may well be on to something.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (31 March 2008):
 If you have a hunch he is telling a lie....
You can read all the tips here;-http://marriage.about.com/cs/trustissues/a/spotaliar.htm
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reader, thebethany  +, writes (31 March 2008):
you may need to put more into that
if you dont trust his integrity dont marry him, if your fishy you obvioculy dont trust him, without trust ur marriage wont work
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