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Opinions on my boyfriend and I's age difference?

Q.   I'm 18 and he's 27. When we are together, age is not an issue. We have a heck of a lot in common, and we are each very dedicated to making our relationship work. I will be telling my Mum about us soon, but before I do, I'd really apprecia...

A.   1 April 2008: 9 years is a big difference, personally i think he is too old for you but if you love him then you love him. the thing is that 9 years is not a big deal when your 40 and 49, but it is when your 18 and 27. the thing is are you at the same mat... (read in full...)

Genuine teacher/student problem - urgent advice needed!

Q.   Hey, genuinely want advice here guys! Ok, Im 16 and doing my 'A' levels at my school sixth form. There is this one teacher I get along very well with, and im not sure what's happening with us. He is married with children He is genuinely, i b...

A.   31 March 2008: i agree with mandy, not to be harsh honey, but he is your teacher, you're a student. it is not appropriate for you too to be in love, he has a wife and children and a life with them. he sounds as if he is going through a rough time but he shou... (read in full...)

Can you be depressed at 14?

Q.   I havn't really had it easy when i was younger, but not exactly hard, the thing is, i always seem to be down, i barely eat or sleep[not purposly], i don't have any best friends, as we've all have our ups and downs, so we've all drifted apart, i have ...

A.   31 March 2008: You sound really depressed, and if you hold it in you will snap. I was depressed at your age, tried to hang myself actually, but I am fine now (I'm 19) and im so glad im alive. You need to talk to someone and get to the root of your problems, a... (read in full...)

I love him so much. I'm always craving sex form him.... is that normal....

Q.   I have a SEXY sexy sexy boyfriend. I love him so much. I'm always craving sex form him.... is that normal.... like he'll send me a text saying "Mmm baby I want you" and I automatically get horny .Is that normal to get that way over nothing ? I'm ...

A.   31 March 2008: i do hope ur being careful with your sexually relationship at the age u listed. you're a teenager, you're horny, its normal... (read in full...)

If you have a boyfriend and you kiss a guy that is one of your ex boyfriends and you kissed only once, is that cheating?

Q.   If you have a boyfriend and you kiss a guy that is one of your ex boyfriends and you kissed only once, is that considered cheating?...

A.   31 March 2008: yeas, you cheated, not as bad as sex but still a no-no whyd u do it? u need to tell ur bf ... (read in full...)

What are the tell tale signs?

Q.   How do you tell if your soon to be husband is lying to you?...

A.   31 March 2008: you may need to put more into that if you dont trust his integrity dont marry him, if your fishy you obvioculy dont trust him, without trust ur marriage wont work... (read in full...)

Working Couple with Child Emergency

Q.   In 2006 towards the end of the year my partner, whilst we were both living together at University, became accidentally pregnant. At first I was overjoyed but she wanted an abortion. After time I persuaded her that we should keep the baby and in ...

A.   31 March 2008: if you dont want to sign the contract DONT its your life too if she is angry at you let her be part of a relationship is listening to what your partner wants not getting your paretns to bully them into signing for a house they dont want... (read in full...)

He's mad at me for checking his e-mails, but he's the one in the wrong!

Q.   My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. I just got mad at him because he signed up for a dating site, looking for girls where he is at. I confronted him and he said that he was just curious and wanted to find out the price of it. ...

A.   31 March 2008: well you shouldnt have checked the emails and he shoudnt have signed up for a dating site. ur both in the wrong but there is a root to this problem or neither of u would have done wat u did? think on it, work out what it is and solve the root p... (read in full...)

I'm dating a girl that is a tom boy!!

Q.   Dating a girl that is a tom boy. We have so much in common we seem like twins and soul mates. Everything is perfect but i just cant stay sexually attracted to her. She never wants to put on make-up or fix her hair or even dress like a girl. I trie...

A.   31 March 2008: whoever said it was another mans baby? so she's 2 months pregnant, doesnt mean its not his. ... (read in full...)

4 years of performing 'wifely' duties, yet he's still not ready for marriage, what shall I do?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 10 years now. During the first stages of our relationship it was on again and off again. We had our problems but after a while decided to get serious and move in together. We have been living toge...

A.   31 March 2008: maybe marriage is not for him, maybe u will always be defacto, maybe he cant handle the committment, or maybe he will propose next week. it could be any number of things, but its obvious that marriage is important to you, and i would say after 10 ... (read in full...)

I'm young and in love, and want it all!! Is that wrong?

Q.   I'm young and in love! It's wonderful, and I KNOW I love him .... But I've had realtionships in the past where boys have hurt me (not pysically but emotionally). He says "I love you" everyday, and he always makes me feel special and loved. He's real...

A.   31 March 2008: your never too young to be in love, the question is whether your too young to be in love so that it will work. i am 19, i have been living with my boyfriend, the love of my life, since we were 17. i know i love him, i know he loves me, but many... (read in full...)

MY boyfriend wishes for me to give him oral.... I'm a virgin and I don't know how to do it...

Q.   MY boyfriend wants me to give him oral.... I'm a virgin and I don't know how to do it.... I'm kinda nervous about it... do I swallow or spit..? What exactly do I do? Can you get STD's? Do you use a condom? I don't know. Please help if you can ! ...

A.   31 March 2008: has he ever had another girlfriend who he has been sexually active with? if not then you dont need to worry about stds or the such. spitting or swallowing is completely up to you, do whatever you feel comfortable with at the time, also if your... (read in full...)

I'm nervous to be seen naked by my boyfriend.

Q.   I really want to have sex with my boyfriend but I am kinda nervous being naked around him! I've tried to like get over it but it just wont go away! I really like my boyfriend and he would never force me to do anything I didnt like! I am dying to ...

A.   31 March 2008: dont worry he will be so horny he wont see any imperfections, hell he wouldnt notice if you were purple... (read in full...)

My parents DON'T understand!

Q.   I'm always crying at home and it's because my parents always say something to make me feel like I'm not good enough. I love talking to my friends on the computer, I must admit, I stay on the computer all day and my parents complain that I stay in ...

A.   31 March 2008: your parents love you, they do, they're your parents. best thing you can do is tell them your upset and want to talk about it. a breakdown of communication is only fixed by communication. Also, everyone thinks their parents are aliens... (read in full...)

Be honest please, I'm trippin', can she be pregnant?????

Q.   Okay, say I came on my hands the night before and washed them, went to bed then at around 4 o'clock the next day started playing with a girl out side her pants! So without comtact can she get pregnant? Note that there was a small hole around the ...

A.   31 March 2008: unless they are super-sperm who live without hydration no. they were long washed away down the drain or dead before u touched her... (read in full...)

Birthday ideas for my boyfriend please.

Q.   Dear Cupid, My boyfriend's fifteenth birthday is coming up (it's in a little over a month), and I am absolutely CLUELESS as to what to give him. I want it to be something special, but at the same time, not too totally over-the-top, as...

A.   31 March 2008: u said he loves baseball, buy him a shirt of his favourite team or something of the sort ... (read in full...)

Can you be a virgin and have anal sex and get pregnant?

Q.   ok here goes I'm a virgin and had anal sex for the first time, now I'm having pregnancy syptoms like stomach pain, back ache, dizzness and nauseousness and I wonder am I pregnant? help me...

A.   31 March 2008: um did he cum in your bum or on your bum or in a condom, if he came in ur bum then ur fine, on ur bum and maybe your not, in a condom and ur fine. so basically, u have almost no chance of getting pregnant from anal sex but u have a slight c... (read in full...)

I just don't know how to tell her how I really feel without being awkward about it or even worse, making our friendship awkward.

Q.   Hey, I'm stuck in a pretty complicated situation right now. I've been very close friends with this girl for over 3 years now, we hook up somewhat frequently and we're just extremely close friends in general. However, we haven't officially dated ...

A.   31 March 2008: well id just tell her to her face you love her, the worst that can happen is she says she doesnt feel the same way and u blush and feel awkward then run away. the best thing that can happen is she loves you too and then you end up together. its... (read in full...)

Could I have been that bad in bed, that he didn't want sex with me again?

Q.   A couple weeks ago, me and a guy friend slept together. We met through a mutual friend but we've only known eachother a few months, it's not like we're really close or know eachother realy well. Well i was attracted to him, and he seemed into me, ...

A.   31 March 2008: this doesnt have to be about u being bad in bed, he may just be wierded out by the step in your relationship, the best thing i cans uggest is to ask him whats up, if he wont tell u the truth, he is not worth you time.... (read in full...)

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