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writes:How do you know for sure if your ex boyf is not going to come back to you?? I have been with my guy for over a year..and well we had many breakups in the last 6-7 months..nearly 1 each of those months. I think he broke up out of fear...cos the dynamic in the relationship is becoming more serious..anyway I am pregnant and this time he broke up with me as I was feeling a bit sick at the time...and I guess I complained a bit too much which I said sorry for..but now he is not interested in making it work again and I am ignoring him as are his wishes etc. plus out of self-respect too.My question is: what are the signs?? how do you know for sure if an ex is going to come back to you?...I have no probs moving on if needs be..but I feel kinda annoyed at his lack of understanding regarding my health.Its been 2 days where we have not spoken to each other at all or written etc...I know ignoring him is the only option in this case..which thankfully am doing really well...but what are the signs??
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell sadly am embarrassed to say... Was having probs to become pregnant by him so there is only a 5% chance this baby is his. Cos I had a stupid rebound relationship when we broke up. He knows about this all. Was honest. Condom broke..and I lost touch with that person...so now he thinks it isnt his but there is a small chance it could be. Even though am doing fine alone, I miss him. So yeah its hard to know where you stand...cos one min he wants nothing to do with me then the next he is asking to get back with me..he has been ignoring me on purpose I guess..which I suppose is a good thing for both of us..BUT I am finding it really hard..anyway thank you for your answer..
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reader, obsticalfree  +, writes (27 August 2009):
I guess if he stays in contact and mentions that he misses you. I am in a similar situation in that I do not know when we will be together or not but I find it confusing cuz my ex stays in contact leaving me uncertain and unable to move on. But others have told me that staying in contact is a sure sign they want to work things out.You didn't say and so I could assume but I'll just ask... is the baby his? If so I think he should be a little more understanding of your moods.
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