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writes:so I met this amazing person, and we care for each other deeply. But when it comes to sex, I cum too fast. Not even like, I dont last long. But, Literally, I came as the condom was put on. I cant control this, I have tried "dont focus on it, dont think about it"Somebody please help
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reader, vampiric_nikolas  +, writes (7 October 2009):
lola is right. practice bro and you`ll be close to being pro. but seriously masturbate if you want to perform longer. you learn a thing or two about things you can do.
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (6 October 2009):
 Have you tried masturbating once or twice prior to seeing her? You need practice.. The more sex you have the more control you will have, and the less sensitive you will be, but in the meantime, this might help.
Alternatively, when my boyfriend was younger he would orgasm quickly, but recover his erection quickly, too. Just because you have an orgasm doesn't mean that "play-time" has to be over. You can orgasm early, keep working on her and may have more stamina with her the second time around.
Good luck.
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reader, Melys  +, writes (6 October 2009):
 Hi there,
Maybe you should try a bit of foreplay before....where you help her climax first...then it won't matter as much if you climax early during sex.
I guess over time your excitement may cool off a little and you'll be more in control...
Good luck...and don't focus on it too much...
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