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writes: I am not able to perform oral sex on my husband at the moment, please can anyone give me advice on other ways to pleasure my husband during foreplay.
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reader, NordicBeauty +, writes (6 July 2005):
Oooh I love issues like this...lotsa spice & variety !To begin with, find out what turns your hubby on.I mean find out what REALLY turns your hubby on !!He may be a bit shy at first & beat around the bush with his answers, but you're a Goddess so you can coax it out of him...prepare his favourite meal, rent his choice of movie, and when the credits roll at the end of the movie, excuse yourself, scamper into the bedroom & slip into something absolutely "mouth watering !"Then release your magic & start the play time !Light some candles, turn on sexy tunes & sway to the beat.If you're into handcuffs or tying each other to the bed, you might want to use a bit of playful bondage with him.Tie his hands to the bedposts & do a striptease for him.He will lay there smiling, eagerly anticipating MORE.Strip down to your undies...& approach him topless.He cannot reach out & touch you because he's tied up !(make sure he has his underwear on...it comes off later)Find a blindfold (a scarf is fine)a long feather & icecube.Cover his eyes & do NOT show him the hidden pleasure toys!Slowly trail the feather over his body...start with his arms, then his legs, up to his face, along his lips, then back down his chest, to his growing rising erection !Keep playing with the feather for awhile and then warn him you have another "toy" you are going to use...more smiles!Hold the icecube in your closed fist, poised over his chest, until the warmth from your hand, melts the ice a bit, a few droplets of cold water drip onto his chest.He will gasp with delight & both of you will laugh !Then slowly drag the icecube lightly, ever so lightly over parts of his body...giving him delicious shivers and perhaps even making your body shiver too !When you see his body glistening with water droplets, lean over & blow your warm breath across his body...it's fun !Then press your naked breasts on his chest & rub to & fro.Whisper something naughty & dirty in his ear, such as,"I can't suck you like a lollipop but I'm gonna drive you wild big boy !"OR...try a Mae West impersonation, with a southern drawl,"is that your gun in your holster, or are you just happy to see me?"You may decide to incorporate other toys from your yummy imagination...you go girl...look in your kitchen for tools!(scrub brushes, forks, feather dusters, even a toothbrush)All these tools can be glided gently over his body & he will turn his underwear into a tent with a huge hard on !Keep his blindfold on & slowly...tormentingly slowly remove his underwear, blowing your hot breath on him.Locate some lubricant...or hand lotion is great too, and SLATHER his penis with it...caressing him & enjoying the silky feeling of soft lotion and his HARD hot erection.Grab his penis firmly & move your hand up & down,(he will hear the sound of your hand & lotion together)The smile on his face will grow, as will other parts !With your other hand, let him suck on the remainder of the ice cube...the poor guy needs some hydration at this point.Continue to pleasure him until he explodes in orgasm.Wahla !After you're done, you can both lay in bed together & plan your NEXT foreplay event...when you're on the receiving end!
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (4 July 2005):
 Massage and caressing are a good start. How about stroking his entire body from head to foot to arouse him? You may find he prefers certain areas of his body to be massaged than others. Concentrate on those areas if you wish. In return, he could do the same so that you enjoy foreplay together.You could try not touching him where he expects to be touched and to hold off from touching there for a long length of time. This will increase his arousal.
You could rub yourself against his body too, all over. Lay behind him so that he can feel the length of your body against his and use your hands to stroke his penis gently and then firmly as he gets more excited.
Just kissing him and exploring his mouth is all part of foreplay and telling him how he arouses you will increase his enjoyment.
I hope some (or all!) of these things help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2005): why not use your hands instead?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2005): There are heaps of ways to pleasure your partner with out performing oral. Hand jobs are a good example. If you're not too sure how to do it, ask him how he likes it... 'Titty fucks' are also a good one. He gets on top and puts his penis between your breasts. Squeeze them together and away you go!
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