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*mandanash
writes:Me and my boyfriend are on a break right now, because he was questioning the relationship, due to his own self issues. I am sure the relationship will end after our break, as he has hurt and lied to me a lot since we started having troubles. We aren't speaking, but I heard that he made plans to go on fishing trip to a cabin with 2 girls, alone. Obviously he has no respect for me, or is he trying to just get attention? What are his motives for doing this? I feel so hurt!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (25 June 2010):
I think he's checking out of this relationship. Whether he has no respect, has his own problems or it just trying to get attention, you're making a mistake staying with this guy. You should allow yourself to be treated this way. The idea of a break (which usually doesn't work anyway), is that you deal with your own problems. Instead your boyfriend is planning to have his cake and eat it. Don't bother with him anymore. He's not worth it. End it permanently.
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reader, shanib +, writes (25 June 2010):
I would say he s trying to either hurt you or get your attention. Men cant just play it straight. what exactly are his issues? Lying distroys trust so honesty is always the best way. If he loves you he will come back if not let him go, but dont bite to his obvious ways of trying to make you jealous coz thats not love.
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