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We've moved and its small town and I'm feeling very discouraged

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Question - (14 July 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 31 July 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *eme writes:

I have no friends, no relatives, no history what so ever in this new town that I've moved in with my parents. Now I just feel so sick and alone. I can't talk about anything personal to anyone. I've lost contact with all my old friends. I feel like I'm living alone in this world now. I just can't wait to get a job, in which the opportunity is just so rare because it's such a small, tiny city. Probably just about the size of 40 football field, and this I mean the houses are randomly scattered as well. My money's running short and I need to work!

thanks for reading my stupid complaint on my crappy life.

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A female reader, ceme United States +, writes (31 July 2009):

ceme is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Yeah! That's how I feel. I miss the people D: and shopping! Thanks for knowing that I exist too :D

A nice cup of coffee or tea goes well with the scenery.

I'm so glad Bill Gate created the computer and this site is incredible ! People here are really discussing and trying to help you out.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2009):

I'm in the same rut as you're in! I like the scenery but I'm slowly learning that I miss my Los Angeles and all the people. I'm not one to seek attention but I guess I feel comfort when I know someone else knows that I exist!

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A female reader, ceme United States +, writes (19 July 2009):

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Thanks JasonX, I sure will. That's what I'm planning to do.

Anonymous guy, thanks for the vet idea. I never thought about that!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009):

Ok, you've got to get out of any rut that you're in. Small towns are a challenge, but it's possible. Start looking for a job, and some place to volunteer. if you like animals, how about going to a local vet? They may need an assistant... you could hang with them, and learn about animals, and net work thought the vet. Odds are good they know alot of folks, and can make introductions. It's easier making connections when you're alreay interacting with people.

If the vet idea doesn't work for you, try something similar - charity organizations might work, but so could volunteering at a local hospital or even a school.

Get out and be amongst people - the internet is ok, but not as a subsitute for real interaction! Good luck!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009):

Does sound pretty bad. Well definitely get a job first and work your way up from there. Its quality over quantity anyway, and will take time to accept any change like that. You may not even like it, but if you get a job you can save up and move out of the town.

Good Luck ^^

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