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writes: my boyfriend and i broke up a week ago, he went out with someone else coz he was told that i cheated on him but i didn'twe only started hanging out again recently coz he broke up with his gf. we always get along, we are genuinely in love and evn though we've been through heaps i know we only get stronger each time. i asked him to take it slow with us and he said he didn't kno what he wanted and wen i got home.he messaged me and said that he loves me he misses me and that he wants to be together but he feels lyk he needs to try move on, he knows that i'm for him but he wants to fool himself coz he can't let himself get back together with me.=(i then asked him if we could stay wid each other tomoro nite and he said "i don't know, i'll tell you by tomoro" does that mean he is thinking about what he wants in the mean time, coz if he still didn't wana be together he would say no because it's harder? please tell me what u think he would do.we were together for 3 years btw.
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reader, Ask oldersister  + ♥, writes (22 July 2008):
 I'm sorry but this guy started seeing someone else because he wanted to, not because of some rumor through the grapevine. I also don't think he's "thinking" about what he wants to do in the meantime, I believe he's actually "doing" what he wants in the meantime and putting off giving you an unpleasant answer.
It just appears he is stringing you along. He knows you well enough to have already decided if he wants to be your boyfriend, so I think you should be hearing that he doesn't based on his 'confusion' and distance.
He said he wants to move on and I suggest you do the same.
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reader, LazyGuy  + ♥, writes (22 July 2008):
 Why do I get the feeling he has been shoveling some bovine excrement?
He said he was told you had cheated, so he got himself another girl. Who told him you had cheated on him?
It seems a bit to convenient to me. Right when he allegedly hears you cheated he got another girl waiting. My, how lucky!
I think you are being played.
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