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writes: me and my girlfriend have decided to have sex on weekend. we love each other. were both 16. she's has had sex before but i havent. she said she likes to have sex hard and fast. what does she mean? what turns girls on? and how do you know when they climax? boys have cum come out but what about girls? how do i tell lol? can you give as much detail possible please. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2006): Well!! you are a lucky boy! you have the advantage of being a virgin and your girlfriend is a very lucky lady too. She gets to tell you how to do everything just right so she can get her ideal lover!! also you get to learn as much as you want to know. Sounds like the ideal situation to me.
Dont stress about the small stuff, most of it will just come naturally and if your not sure if she likes what your doing.........Just ask!! us ladies love that, if she says she likes it different get her to show you how.
Im sure your gonna be fine, just dont make the mistake I made, make sure you have enough foreplay before hand!.
You'll be fine trust me its instinctive.
Have fun
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reader, ButterflyonFire +, writes (19 October 2006):
 And remember, USE A CONDOM!!! You don't wanna be a daddy at 16.
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reader, ButterflyonFire +, writes (19 October 2006):
I'm glad to see that your so open and honest! I love that about guys. Now, what you need to do is take that into the bedroom with you!
Since it's your first time and she's done it before, maybe you should let her be on top first. Then you can lay there and enjoy your first time and have the advantage to pull her towards you and kiss her, mess with her boobs, rub her clit with your fingers. w/e
You'll know if she likes it by her facial expressions and if she makes any noises. Not all ppl are loud, don't buy the whole "everybody moans and every girl gets off" crap that the porno's try to make us beleive. Sometimes beleive it or not you won't even get off! Don't ask me why, I think it's a body thing.
When it's your time to be on top your instincts should kick in.. you've watched stuff haven't ya? Seen positions? Well, there ya go! It isn't that hard. And remember, the first time most guys don't last very long. Don't be embarrassed it happens to ALOT of guys.
If you want to ask me anything else I'll be glad to answer. Just send me a message. Good luck and have fun! ~Jamie
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reader, BeckaR +, writes (19 October 2006):
 A few things...she says she likes it hard and fast, that means exactly what it sounds like. She likes a hard penetration and a fast rhythm. From my experiences, this might be a little difficult for you on your first time. If she knows that you are a virgin, it is the perfect opportunity to ask her what she wants you to do and tell you what turns her on. If you get her to tell/show you, it will make for a much better sex life down the road and it opens the door for talking to eachother about your wants and needs.
As for what turns girls on, it really is each woman's preference.
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