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writes: to call this guy my best freind wud be a understatement..he means a lot to me..i dont think he realises it..however..im with sumone who i also care for a lot..i think im going to meet my boyfreinds family soon..and soon der might even be an engagement.i want it all..but theres a voice in my head telling me to tell the other guy how im feeling about him..i dont even kno what reaction i want from him..and to be honest i dont even kno if i can sacrifice everything i have..im tottally confused..what do u think i shud do?? my boyfreind understands me..but i feel this really powerful connection with the other guy..but im scared of his reaction...im also scared of what people may think of me..i dont want to hurt any1..bu i cant stay silent forever..any advice would be brill...thanks...x
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reader, ButterflyonFire +, writes (19 October 2006):
 I have learned to listen to that voice. You need to find out how you really feel about these two guys and how your best friend really feels about you.
You don't want to get too serious with your boyfriend with this looming over the two of you. You wouldn't want to get engaged and then find out your friend actually likes you and then always have that nagging "what if"
I can't really tell you exactly what to do other than follow your heart. Because it's your life and only you know what you need to do and who your spose to be with.
~Jamie
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