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writes: alright, here is a question:My new partner and I recently tried to have intercourse. However, she is a small girl and I am well endowed. We simply were not able to "fit together" I have had only one sexual partner before this, and had no problem what so ever, what can we do? Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (28 November 2006):
 If at first you don't succeed, try, try again.
If you're a fairly large guy, it might take a few times for her to get used to your size. Lots of foreplay + lots of lube = lots of fun. Just take your time and have fun with it. Even if it takes a month (that's how long it took with me and my boyfriend - we had the same problem as you), the journey getting there is a lot of fun.
Good luck and happy orgasms,
xxIndia
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reader, k-fed +, writes (27 November 2006):
Have u tried lubricant
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2006): Unless you're a freak of nature or a porn star, I doubt your too big for her, especially since you say you haven't had a problem in the past. My guess is she's probably a little intimidated by the size of it because she's never been with a man as big or is a virgin and could be a little tense.
Just try a lot of foreplay to get her really aroused and try to slip a finger or two in beforehand to get her "warmed up."
Also try to be careful while thrusting, if she's a small girl so you don't hurt her. I have a bigger than average penis as well and when I was having sex with my g/f who is very petite I had to be careful not to go too deep because I could really hurt her. Just take your time and be careful and you should be fine.
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