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30-35,
*earbear
writes:I regret not making a move on this guy.. i've fancied him for over a year and he found out i liked him and didn't like me back at the time but 6 months later he started becoming really interested in me and i really have a feeling he likes or liked me back and everyone says how much we should be a couple and always, always says * and * if they're speaking about one of us.. it's just how it is. we're one of those cute 'couples' that aren't actually going out but everyone knows we're meant to be and swears blind that we're gonna grow old together. He asked me to the prom 5 times but i said i wasn't going and now he's going with someone else which i'm okay with, slightly gutted but happy that he didn't give up asking me and also happy he has someone to go to prom with.What's really bugging me though is that i'm really upset because we're leaving school tomorrow and going our separate ways (not through choice) and apart from the fact he's joked saying I'LL miss him, it seems like he doesn't care at all.. after all of this time of being * and *.. it's all going to end TOMORROW.I'm actually in pieces and i've never felt this about anyone, even previous boyfriends.I know you must think it's silly because we're not in a relationship but we act as though we are but just don't feel the need to 'commit' to eachother particularly as he's known for months that we're going our separate ways. I just don't know what to do, do i say something or forget and move on? It's only one day right? I just know that doing nothing will completely break my heart... it'll be like me and him never had something between us at all. In theory, he's only 30 mins away from my house so it's not like i couldn't see him ever again.. I just think it's unlikely we'd meet up after we leave because it'd hurt too much for both of us. I have a feeling he just wants to try to forget about me because i'm leaving and in a way, i do too but i'd rather be in a relationship with him because i truly like him so much.Please help? I'm not gonna have a clue what to do tomorrow.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2010): It may be late to tell you now but i too am facing this problem i have done this by telling her i love her and that she will always be in my heart no matter how far apart we are
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (27 May 2010):
 You cannot really blame him for not caring about it because he asked you 5 times to the prom but you rejected him.
You may like him inside, but your body language tells him a different story.
If you like him , tell him or give him chances .
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (27 May 2010):
 Sorry sweet you are not going to like my answer. I understand how you feel but I think you need to just let it go. You will meet someone else and forget all about this brief period in your life. Forget about this guy as he obviously was not interested in you since he had over 6 months to do something about it and did nothing. He was not in to you or he would have been there. Forget him and move on so you can be open to other opportunities.
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