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16-17,
anonymous
writes:My guy friend has stopped talking to me! He still stares but I haven't seen him in a while. When I left class to be dismissed we both looked at each other and I left. He texted me one day but not much lately. I hope I didn't hurt him when I told him that I wasn't going to talk to him. I think we're drifting apart but I don't know how to change it. It just bugs me that he never tries to talk to me at all. Not even text much anymore. I just feel like I lost a good friend. he says that he doesn't dislike me but what should I do? He shows signs that he likes me when we talk just me and him but when I'm not with him he acts differently. Whats so different about our friendship? How can I fix it?
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reader, hopelessromantic101 +, writes (5 November 2009):
 no offense but your being cruel make up your mind. guys might seem simple but were really not we are as complex as girls and our feelings can be hurt just as easily we just dont show it because of the harassment we get. before you even start talking to him figure out how you feel about him, and what you want from him either a friend or more and you need to reassure him if you talk to him that your not just gonna ignore him but actually be a true friend.
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reader, Ask oldersister + ♥, writes (4 November 2009):
 If you told the guy you weren't going to talk to him, then that's why there is distance. It's beyond me why you would tell someone you don't want to lose as a friend that. How can you fix it? Be honest and tell him why you wanted to stop talking to him in the first place and how you regret that decision. To be honest, your friendship may never be the same again, he might be cautious about you cutting him off again. He might suspect you are playing games with him as well- friends don't treat each other like this. Take care.
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