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writes:My bf and i have had a turbulent relationship.We started off as best friends...gradually falling for each other.The 1st few months were amazing..till the arguments began...stupid...stupid things...but we'd fight about them almost every day.The rel'ship is a LDR...which makes it worse. He's working and i'm doing my MBA..so sometimes i guess both of us would take it out on each other.We broke up once...and went on a break once...I even dated someone else when we broke up and it hurt him a lot.But in the end i realized...i can't live without this guy...we just can't stay w/o each other.The only thing is, both of us are so bitter and untrustworthy...we don't know how to make things better...Should i just end it? Are we totally incompatible?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2011): This appears to be the classic case of two spoiled first graders in two adult bodies. Reminds me of childish pointless junior high school boyfriend girlfriend time wasting game. You both need to either shit or get off the pot and go your separate ways.
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reader, Shelley Harris  +, writes (13 February 2011):
 Hi,Why are you both bitter and untrustworthy, if you have behaviours that are not helping you then you need to change them. Why do you fight about stupid things if you know it's going to cause problems. You need to communicate honestly what's wrong and then make it right. You say you can't live without him, is that true or is it because you don't want to be on your own or because your not sure if anyone else will want you. I don't know the answer to this question but I see it happening a lot and thought I would bring it to your attention. Stop arguing start talking or things will only get worse. Have a go at sorting things out and if they don't work out then you will be better off on your own. If you know what it wrong in a relationship then you can take steps to stop it happening again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2011): You said it yourself that you can't live without this guy. If you believe he is the one, you should stick with him. You guys might be going through tough times in life especially long distance. If you guys can overcome this, I am sure you guys can go through much more in the future together. Good Luck :)
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