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writes: Hi, I have met this girl 2 years ago through a friend who introduced us to each other, so me and her we went out couple of times after we were introduced and we kind of like each other so we continued going out and its been 2 years and a half that we know each other, but we never did get into the relationship. The reason was we both are shy and none of us made the move and we both really wanted to be in the relationship. Then after a while nothing happened between us and she was studying in another city 1 hour away from me. When I started to talk about it she said she doesn't want to hurt me and because she is away all the time and only back on weekends it is not a good timing to get into anything. Recently she is back for good and since then I have been trying to make a move but the problem is she is the only girl I have been so hesitant to kiss, because I don't know what her reactions are going to be? I care about her a lot and she knows I love her. I would like to know if there is a way I can get her to have the same feeling as me? Thanks
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reader, ourhearttoheart +, writes (26 May 2005):
If you are seeing each other, be patient. There is only one way to honestly "get" someone to be like you. If that someone is you! Be yourself. Know who you are. If your not happy with who you are, be honest to yourself and become a better person. This other person. Why do you like her? If the answers are, what you admire in a person, let her be who she is. If you feel she has feelings for you, let them develope naturally. If she is still seeing you, isn't this a sign she cares? If this lass be the true one, be happy. If not, do not take it personal. None of us are ever too old to learn about ourselves or others.
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