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Did we lose the spark when we were separated by his enlistment?

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Question - (25 May 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 27 May 2005)
A , *eartbrokengirl45 writes:

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year and a half now and in the beginning things were great, but then he left for the Marines and we were apart for some time. All in all, I hardly ever heard from him while he was training (understandable) and now I hardly see him unless I drive to his house, or hear his voice unless I call, most of the time.

I told him how I felt but it seems like it was just overlooked and unconsidered. Did we lose our spark?

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A reader, purple_angel +, writes (27 May 2005):

Was there a spark to lose? Absence makes the heart grow founder. Is this true, do you miss him more now that you hardly get to see him, or do you like that fact that you have more free time? If you like the extra time more then I hink it is time to call it a day. You should show him what he would be missing if you were to part ways and make sure he know that he would be the one missing out and then see if he is still willing to overlook and not consider you. Remember that you are a person with feeling too and that you should have been there with him when he made the decision to leave.

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