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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:my husband and i have argued for several months now on and off, he has now left saying hes wants us to have a break, this i am not happy with. he wants to get his own house and just see each other on a weekend, how can this work for us?? also i am not happy with this situation at all. someone please help and advise me what is best to do.
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reader, birdynumnums  + ♥, writes (31 December 2007):
 This sounds extremely suspicious. In fact, it's so odd, that I suspect he has other reasons to get another house, mainly another woman. The only people that I have known to want to "get another house" have already been heavily involved with someone else. Sorry to tell you this, but You might want to hire a private investigator if you are suspicious as well. I have never suggested it before, but in this case, I think that it's your best bet. Sorry to be the voice of doom here, but it would be better to find out sooner than later. Best of Luck Dear.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2007): you say your husband wants a break,a break is a two week holiday not plans to get his own house.hes making it look colourful and rosey,when he really knows what his plans are new house,a divorce and free single life,hes just a coward aint got it in him to be truthful with you sorry but its the truth
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reader, baby duck  + ♥, writes (31 December 2007):
 Are you not happy because you suspect he's going to sleep with other women? If that is the case, and if you want to save your marriage, tell him this is unacceptable to you and why. If he insists, than no matter how much it hurts, write him off ...
Do you have other specific reasons why you don't like this arrangement? You need to know what you feel before you can make an intelligent decision. We can give you sound advice, all across the spectrum, but it's all based on our experiences. That can be helpful in maintaining objectivity, but without knowing what your values are, you cannot draw your boundaries ... and unless you know yourself well enough to know what you will tolerate and what you will not, you cannot take care of yourself ... or your relationships.
So ... be specific. You don't have to tell us, but you have to know the answers for yourself.
Best wishes.
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