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writes: Hi - I split up with my ex fiance about 6 months ago. It's been torture as she immediately started seeing someone else and they both live in the same town as me. Aside from feeling like I may bump into them at any time - I still miss her terribly. I've been out with other women since but none I seem to like as much as her even though our relationship was often turbulent.I recently saw her walking down the road, looking like she had either a. put weight on or b. become pregnant! If its the latter I really dont know how to feel. I know I should move on but I guess my question is whether I should attempt to get back in touch with her to see whats been happening in her life or not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2006): forget about her. you're just hurting yourself by thinking about her. let her live her life. just like you found her, you could find someone else. dont even attempt contacting her. its just going to hurt you more, especially since you say she might be pregnant. try to avoid where she hangs out to avoid confrontation with either of them. its not the end of the world. there is plenty of fish in the sea. go out and date and dont compare any of the girls you date to her. everyones different. im sorry. i could only imagine how you're feeling right now. i hope this helps.
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (6 May 2006):
 You know how you feel now. Imagine if you found out she was pregnant. I think you need to take time and deal with the real issues. You still love this woman and you want her back. If you don't leave her be and move on. If you do or did you should have been layin down the ground work to get her back. There is nothing wrong with calling her unless she never told you not to. A quick chat might do her just as much good as you.
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reader, lilygit  +, writes (5 May 2006):
you know she is someone else now and she might be pregnant as you said so i suggest you move on and forget abt her cos it's not the end of the world.
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