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writes:It's most women's dream-cum-true, But sex lasts forever.My boyfriend takes forever to come. Whenever we have sex, he always has to finish off himself, because he just doesn't get enough stimulation from sex. It's not because he doesn't love me, we have a really really close relationship both physically and emotionally, but it's just that I'm worried there's something wrong. Is this normal? He's only my second sexual partner, and when we first started having sex, he would struggle to maintain an erection (I was his first sexual partner, so we put it down to nerves) We've tried a few positions, nothing really seems to work... The rythm just isn't there. It means that we have loads of foreplay, which don't get me wrong, is BRILLIANT, but i feel bad when I get what I want (shall we say) But he doesn't get what he wants out of sex. It's just we both get so tired, we literally get exhausted and can't continue. I'm 17 and he is 18, we should be fine in the bedroom department, but it just doesn't work. We always talk about what turns us on, and what we would like to try, I give him oral quite alot, he's a really considerate lover, but I just want to make him happy! Help! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell he acts as if he's attracted to me, and as I said, we are very close. However I actually think he masturbates alot, like, more than other people. He sometimes can't come at all, and says that he regrets his... Er, session he had earlier on that day. But I can't really stop him. But I suppose I could suggest a break of atleast a few days, just to see if it gets any better. ( Im not sure how great his self-discipline is though!) if any men are Reading this, how long can you go without the M-word? I might ask it in a seperate question just out of curiosity haha
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2010): I am in the same situation, but my boyfriend was my first sexual partner. At first I knew no different, he has always had to finish himself off after sex and lately its got me really down. I dont know if he masterbates too much, watches too much porn, or simply isnt attracted to me. Have you ever considered any of those?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2010): i dont know what to say im sorry.
i once had a guy who was bi sexual and he liked guys more then woman and he took forever to cum with me. he never told me though. so i had to figure it out bymyself.
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