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We really love each other, but we can't marry because he and I are of different castes! What can I do?

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Question - (11 January 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 January 2006)
A female , *ugshi writes:

Hi!

I really need your help.

I am 26 and my boyfriend is 24. He says he can't marry me as our caste is different and he doesn't want to hurt his parents. We are into physical relationship. I really love him and can't stay away from him. I am really disturbed. I feel lonely.

I know he loves me, but I don't know how to control my feelings and emotions.

Please help.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2006):

im in the same position as you but the other way around my mum wont let me be with him.because his not indian i ran away but came back after 2 mnths because i found out my mum had a heart attack . but the best thing u can do is let go, i know i cant. but all u can do is be friends and i know thats gonna be hard coz im founding that hard 2 . if you found better advise coz i know mine aint telling you much let me know. good luck.

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A female reader, mommyofthree +, writes (11 January 2006):

mommyofthree agony auntI am shocked that even though you know this guy will not give you anything more than sex, you are continuing to have sex with him. It sounds as though your differents castes are giving him an easy way out when it comes to committing to you. It is obvious that you want more than a physical relationship, if he has made it clear that he can not give you more than that get rid of him. You might get lucky and once you end it with him he realizes how much he loves you and proposes marriage, but don't count on it, he sounds like he is getting all he can from you and giving as little as possible in return. Good luck.

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A female reader, llqueen +, writes (11 January 2006):

What is caste?

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