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writes:i am in love with a guy. we both love each other very much. am still a student in my undergrads while he is just fresh out of college into a job. my parents are really of the strictest sort. they consider falling in love sort of somethng really bad although they themselves had a love marriage. i have been carrying on secretly till now but guess my mom has recently got a hint. she tries keeping a tab on me and has even shifted me from my bedroom to hers maybe so that she can keep an eye on me. me and my lover both are so young and i especially dont intend to let my relationship become public before i graduate out of college and before he gets a little better position at his workplce so that if things really turn bad we can get married instantly. but the recent happenings are getting us both worried. our communication levels have seriously dropped and if discovered this could become a cause of real pain and torture at my place. what exactly should i do? pls help Reply to this Question
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters  +, writes (15 September 2010):
 Get your own place and move in with him, assuming you are not in a low caste.
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reader, jimrich +, writes (14 September 2010):
Stand up for your self!
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reader, loopy +, writes (14 September 2010):
 sorry to hear of your plight. but the customs of your country are so much different that those of the USA. I can't imagine what it is like to be treated as a 7 year old till you are middle aged.I presumetheir is also a CHASTE difference amd even a forbidden Name assiciation. A
Fakier/Physic may have interceeded.Chose their way or his way and go on with your life.
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