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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I've known this guy for a few months, I liked him when we first met though nothing happened, next time we met out in a pub we were flirting with each other but I was with another guy that night so nothing happened, then we met again and this time we kissed. I do like him and he definitely seems to like me too but he didn't ask for my number or suggest meeting up. I know I will see him again but not sure when. Does he like me though, wouldn't he have asked for my number if he was interested in me?
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reader, xxstaceyxx +, writes (5 February 2009):
he should be maybe he was just shy so the next time you see him ask him for his number you might find he will be more than happy to. he may just be playing hard to get you never know just go for it
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reader, Auntie Jez +, writes (5 February 2009):
I think Leonardo is right, perhaps he is a slow mover, just taking time to see how you get on before he asks you out.
I think the cheeky comment to him would give him the encouragement he needs and at the same time if he then is not interested you can always pretend you were joking!
I know its hard to encourage a man without going over the top and scaring him off but just be yourself, smile at him a lot, lots of eye contact and he'll soon be putty in your hands..promise!
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reader, Leonardo  +, writes (5 February 2009):
Let me tell you, most guys are shy around women they just meet. On top of that, bars and pubs are places where women just love to play games - you know, lure a guy, then dump him. I think it is an ego builder for some women.As time passes, guys start to understand how the game is played and will often be very careful about making a move too fast. Also, he saw you with another guy... to me that says, "Hey she's got a boyfriend, why should I waste my time chasing her?" He obviously knows you two will meet again sometime - so he is playing his cards close to his vest. Also, he maybe wants to play a little hard to get just to see if you stay interested.BTW, you need to get a better repertoire of bar babble. You should have said, "Hey, now that we are formally introduced (after the kiss), why don't I give you my telephone number so maybe we can meet in a better place than this sleazy pub." Aw, bar babble, I should write a book, "1000 useful phrases to use in awkward situations".
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