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writes:Iv only just got together with my boyfriend after we started talking on a dating website. We met a few days ago and it was fantastic, the best date iv ever had and we spent the whole weekend together. i think hes amazing and he says the same about me. We both go to the same university and live only minutes away during term time. At the moment we are both home from uni and i live 2 hours away from him. We wont be going back to uni for another 2 months now. He came up to see me this weekend and thats when we decided to make it official. The problem is now he hasnt really said when hes coming to see me next. Hes hinted at coming back in august... but thats a whole month away! I feel a little disheartened as we've only just got together and we're going to be apart for a whole month now. He could easily come and see me sooner, even if i had to wait 2 weeks thats fine... but a whole month?! I've even offered to go see him even though its much harder and expensive for me to get there, but he doesnt seem too bothered! Not only arent we going to see each other for a month but hes not really into talking on the phone much either so we're not going to have much contact. 'i feel like as we're just getting to know each other we should be spending more time together. I am glad we made it oficial though because we both know that we want to be together, i just wish we could spend more time! How can i approach him about this without him thinking im nagging him? I dont want to upset things in this tender stage.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (22 July 2008):
Just tell him you miss him and think 4 weeks is far too long. He might be busy over summer and have a lot of friends and family to go and visit.
August really isn't that far away, in fact it's only 7 days away. Why don't you go out and have some fun with your own friends and fill the time and then you won't be wandering around obsessing over this guy.
Good Luck!! xx
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