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*onfused74
writes:My boyfriend blocks everything out, including me. My kids love him to death but this relationship is going dead fast and i have talked to him about it and he sees he does nothing wrong. i am about to blow up because we have no communication and he wants to get married? right if married life is like this then i dont want no part of it. Help! Reply to this Question
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reader, IamJess  +, writes (16 July 2012):
 Well he's obviously thinking there's something there that isn't, have a serious talk with him, the fact your kids are very attached to him could make him think this is a real family and he wants to make it more formal, talk about this.
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (16 July 2012):
 You need to tell him how you feel and tell him you are leaving if things do not change. If you have talked with him and he doesn't think there is anything wrong, he will keep behaving in the same way until you do something that shows you are serious. A relationship is nothing but communication, so I am not really sure how you are surviving right now. You need to give an ultimatum and then leave if he doesn't follow through. Life is too short to spend with someone who won't communicate with you and then won't work with you if you believe there is a problem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2012): I'd say he isn't too keen on getting married anymore and maybe he's shutting down to avoid the tough task of telling you without disappointing everyone. You could say to him that you don't think you should go ahead with the marriage if he's not going to contribute anything to the relationship, and see how he reacts.
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