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writes:We've been together 2 years. He's been fathering my 4 year old and we just had a baby in August. We bought a house in June. He just told me he wants to sleep with other women for new and different experiences?!? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2007): I'm sorry to hear that you are having so much rubbish in your life. You have a young family and have to put up with this. Did you two get together when you were young? You cannot put up with this. Tell him that if he wants to be with other women then your partnership is over and there is no coming back. Let him know that you deserve better and you are not going to be treated like this. Dont put up with this crap, under no circumstances.
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reader, Strippa  +, writes (30 October 2007):
 Hey you
Ask him if he wants the new & exciting experience of being kicked to the kerb!!!!! What a loser this guy is - why don't you ask him if you can try a few different Dads for the kids! - how dare he berate & degrade you at this time in your life with 2 small children & feeling like you have little existence over 2ft tall - if my own experience is anything to go on ( i have 4). get rid of him
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reader, Mistify  +, writes (30 October 2007):
 I'm sorry, he wants to what???
This behavior is totally unacceptable. He should be home being a father to his children. What kind of an example would he like to set to them. It is not okay for him to sleep with somebody else. Not even just once. Sit down with him and discuss what he would like to experience, and reach a compromise. Maybe you can help him experience new things, if you are willing to try. If he still wants sex with other women, then let him - but don't stick around. You need not subject your children to that type of person. What is next? - sex with other men, or sex with minors???
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reader, sexseahot  +, writes (30 October 2007):
 Tell him if he respects and cares for you, these thoughts wouldn't even enter his mind! What do you think about this? I would be disgusted at even the thought that my boyfriend would want to do this. Has this issue ever come up before? I personally think to tell him exactly how you feel about this situation. Don't hold anything back. If he really loves you, then he wouldn't want to do this. If making love to you isn't enough experience for him, then maybe you guys should try and spice up your sex life and see where that takes you.
I hope the best for you! Good Luck!!!
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