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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:me and my boy friend are discussing having sex for the first time and i feel fine about it, to be honest i'm quite excited and we're going to use condoms but i was just thinking that i deffinetly don't want to get pregnant or anything i would just cry for days so would it be a good idea to get a morning after pill to take aswell, because condoms are only like 80% reliable or something i've heard. and if so where would i get one from with out my parents finding out?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2007): thanks i asked this question and after reading your responce i've changed my mind and finished with my boy freind for asking me, because i know he will persist.
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reader, maryann61181  +, writes (7 April 2007):
 Think long and hard about this one honey. I waited until I was 18 and I wish I had waited longer. Once you start having sex with a boy, things change with the relationship. He is a teenager and he will want to have sex more often once you've already begun. In addition, he will tell his friends and this will be spread around. You don't want that kind of reputation. If you have any doubts, don't do it. You need to be sure.
Go into planned parenthood and they will give you birth control and they will give you condoms. You can ask a nurse at your school - or a counselor as well. I don't think you need to be a certain age to go to Planned Parenthood without an adult, but call them and ask for their assitance. Before you start having sex, get your body used to birth control pills for 30 days. Every choice you make now, will affect you for the rest of your life. Also, many young people think and will say that there are certain times that you will not get pregnant. This is false. You can get pregnant anytime; while you are ovulating or not and even while your are on your period. Just be careful.
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