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*ooking4love28
writes:So I joined this dating site a few months ago and went out with a lot of weirdos, than I started talking to this guy on the site who seems the most normal of them yet. To make a long story short, we exchange numbers and start talking on the phone everyday for hours on end. We click very well and seem to get a long very well. We live an hour from each other and we made a date for last Monday but he cancelled last minute so were supposed to meet Thursday...over the weekend he went to visit his step-mom and he told me he told her all about me and etc...he has three kids from a previous marriage as well. We've been talking on the phone for three weeks now and just find it odd we haven't met yet...he went out tonight and he text me he loved me which I'm kind of weirded out by...how could he love me? we haven't met yet...plus he hasn't replied to my text in a hour so I'm starting to think he's with someone else...I need some advice, help!
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reader, looking4love28 +, writes (17 March 2011):
looking4love28 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you everyone!!!! Oh and guess what he flaked on our date tonorrow...big surprise...
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2011): You can not love someone you have not met, you are right to think it strange. The slightly eratic behaviour could be because he's already in a relationship. If you do meet him, make it a lunch or something that doesn't not lead him to think sex may be on the menu. When dealing with people you meet on the internet its best to be careful not to give out the wrong signals.
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reader, Eilish  +, writes (16 March 2011):
 Well to be honest, you have never met, so I find it kinda wierd how he has told you he loves you when you've only been talking online. He may have been a bit drunk? or maybe he doesn't really love you, he just loves how close you two are becoming.
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reader, Kilcardy +, writes (16 March 2011):
First, I'd change dating sites. Second, don't get all wrapped up in this guy. It's a red flag that he "loves" you already when he hasn't even met you. He sounds like one of those people who are in love with being in love. They're the worst kind because the minute the bloom is off the rose and the real work of love in its truest sense begins, they vanish. Off chasing the next "love" of their life. Be careful with this and don't take this guy seriously at all.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (16 March 2011):
 He went out tonight and texted you that he loved you...
Not that I doubt your "lovableness", but do you think alcohol could have been influencing his texting?
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