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writes:Hi! I am 25 years old guy in love with a girl who is 17 years old. I don't want to loose her at any cost. Now the only problem that worries her is the age difference being to 8 years which she says could have problems in future which might lead to differences in opinion and such kind of things. Will that problem really occur in future even after the trust and strong bond we have in each other? Reply to this Question
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reader, cuninglingwist  +, writes (4 September 2007):
"she says could have problems in future"
Like telling you ahead of time she may want to change horses!
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reader, DV1 +, writes (3 September 2007):
 I would wait to date her until she's 18. There may be a difference in maturity level, especially at her age. She's young, and probably doesn't want to be tied down to one person... Take it slow...DV1
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reader, Ears4tears  +, writes (3 September 2007):
 No one person has the same thoughs or opinions, what a boring world would it be if did!! An age gap no matter how big or small could never change this. All you can do in a relationship is agree to disagree, dont make it into a big issue that could destroy your relationship. If you truely have a strong bond, and most importantly love and trust the age gap should not be an issue. It seems you really do care for this girl so the best thing you can do is reassure her and execpt that your to different people.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2007): I have been seeing my fiance since i was 16, and he was 24. we are together 7 years and have a beautiful 8 month old son. the age gap certainly never got in the way because i looked much older and acted older, so could go to pubs and clubs with him and nothing stopped me. thats just one expereince, give it a shot! what might happen is , you'll think she is missing out because she is so young and you may have "lived a bit more" than she has.
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