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writes:i started dating a lad 3 yrs ago and fell pregnant, he didnt want to know about the baby, then we got back together then split up then got back together my daughter is 3 now and we are still together, we dont talk we dont make love we dont cuddle or any thing it feels as though hes bak wiv me coz hes got no where else to go when i talk to him he dont wanna know he dont do talking i feel as though he dont wanna be with me and that hes only with me coz he has to be what do i do???????? do i carry on like this or what, i do love him and i wont tell him i love him as i asked him how he felt about me he said just give it time its been 3,4 years on and off now how much time does he need please will you get back in touch with me and let me know what to do, remember i cant talk to him as he dont do talking thankyou tammy!!!
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reader, depaiva  +, writes (7 February 2007):
 You know very well what you should do....
You sound like an independent women and you deserve so much more then this guy. He is draining you of all the love and goodness you have to offer. Be realistic, after more than 3yrs and he still can't tell you that he loves you-he doesn't deserve your love nor your time.
Also think about your child-does she/he need a role model who treats her mom like shit? And this behavior will affect your child later in life, I'm sure you want your child to be a positive and happy kid.
I would tell you to talk to him about the way you feel but like you said he doesn't want to talk to you so there's not much more you can do to safe this relationship. Believe in yourself and all the goodness you have to offer someone who will reciprocate those feelings.
Deep down you know what to do, so stop doubting yourself and do it.
Good luck Tammy and let me know how things go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2007): how do you survive?dump him
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