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30-35,
*arkside726
writes:i love my ex and i want to spend the rest of my life with her. I lied to her in the past and she has lied to me so we had trust issues we broke up for a while and jst got bck together and i was so happy when i got her bck. But she left me again and told me she can never be with me again cause she cant get over the past. I suggested we work on our problems together but she just wants to be friends... i cant help thinking there is smeone else. We have a son together and whenever i visit him i have to see her there is no way around it. i dont mind seeing her but i get rly depressed when i do cause i still love her. How can i win my love back? Or how can i get over her so i can see my son without getting upset?
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reader, PsILoveYou  +, writes (5 December 2010):
 If you don't mind me asking...How old is your son?
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reader, cavwils12 +, writes (5 December 2010):
 Try to see if she'll talk about the relationship again and ask her if there is anything that will change her mind. On the other hand, your son comes before anything so suck up your pride and show love for your baby. If you really cant handle it, then maybe try to get partial custody so she can drop him off at your house or you pick him up. I have a 1 year old daughter and I am not with her father. He sees her twice a week for only 4 hours at a time because there are issues with the way he watches her. But the baby for sure comes first no matter what your feelings are. I'm a 19 year old mother and I was able to put my feelings away for my daughter and believe it or not, I no longer have any feelings for him and I am happy. I know you will be too. I hope everything works out for you!
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