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writes: Dear Cupid---I am 77 and a friend--male on the internet is also 77--we have talked every day on the net for 3 years -and I suppose -even tho we have not met we are fond of each other--he is beginning to talk in an amourous way about loving me and not being able to do without me--he lives alone (?) in the States and has very few family left (he says)--and has started saying that he would like to come now to England to see me.He knows all the drawbacks about my age--eg--overweight and on medication--like I know that he is too -and his address is genuine too I have sent cards and things.I have to say I had a long secure marriage before husband died--and tho I feel lost when my friend doesn't write for any reason--I feel as tho I am going into deep water that I do not know--a bit scared and not confident at all--please can someone talk some sense to me--I do need it badly--Thank you . Landgirl.
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reader, Mr.Ed +, writes (19 December 2005):
 Dear lovely woman. You had a wonderful marraige and it sounds as though your starting to fall in love again. Really? some of us could only hope to fall in love again. I finally did after 11 years of being divorced. I hope you do too! I don't think you need any advice on your letter except that you shouldn't waste any more precious time writing us just see where things go. You have a lot of love to give and need to give it. He sounds loving and assuredly adores you. Run with it and see what romance leads you too. It's normal to be scared but you are not crazy so tell him to come over for some tea and a bit of cookie. What if he's handsome or rich or just a wonderful friend. You will not lose anything unless you tell him NO. Friendship is hard to find nowdays and I'm glad you found 1. I still wouldn't kiss him the first night though. Good Luck, Sincerely Ed
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