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writes: What happened to our relationship?I have been talking to this guy for a couple of months (long distance relationship). We see each other every other week -- either I fly there, or he flies here. We talk on the phone couple of times per day, everyday.This last time when I went to visit him, he was completely cold and non-affectionate towards me. I met his friends for the first time and he said that his friends really liked me. After flying home, I called him and he didn't answer, and never called me back. It has been a week or so already and we haven't spoke since then. What happened? Could it be that he's seeing someone else? or just not interested anymore -- even though he was the one that was pursuing me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2006): this guy reminds me of this guy i dated. He did the same thing. Does he live in Louisiana by any chance?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2006): Well, its probably the fact hes so cold towards you because of the fact you live so far away..and im sure other women do go up to him and he could probably get away with it because you live so faraway from eachother.
Just Think.. Do You Really Love This Man?
Im sure there are plenty men where you live unless you want to go move over there.. you dont need to be in a relationship.. break up and if he still wants to be your friend well you can tease him and please him now and again ;) or if he doesnt want to be your friend after that flirt with his mate heehee... Well only if you want to :P
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2006): hate to say it, but he could just not be interested. i wouldnt take it so personally, or over analyze it too much. quit worrying and keep busy with soemthign else for a while. if he doesnt call, call him...see what happens. leave him a voicemail but dont freak out on him or antything...thats the LAST thing he wants to hear. or as the male reader below says- email him or something. sometimes it is alot easier explaining things through those ways. dont panic and flip if you do talk to him, act like it doesnt even bother you.
goodluck man
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2006): try sending a e-mail. if he has something to tell you ... it might be easier to break it to you by e-mail ... also the chance that his cell phone/etc might have broken in the last week. so try communicating again.
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