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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:okay I asked this guy who lives next to me in the dormitory if he wanna go to the cinema and first he was like "oh do you wanna bring any friends" and then he just wanted to ask another girl from the dormitory (they are friends and know each other for years so he is not into her) but she wasn't at home and we went alone...(I wore a long shirt (I am short so for me it is a dress), non transparent black tights, a long cardigan and a leather jacket) and he once he asked "do you even wear a skirt"? and I said "hey that's a long shirt" and he "okay. anyway it looks good" and we were joking arround a few times because of that in the cinema (I didn't want popcorn or something) he offered me his popcorn and his coke, and we haven't broken the touch barrier before but in the movies he touched my arm a few times to tell me something and he was a perfect gentlemen (held doors open ect but I don't know if he isn't always that friendly) and when we came home he was like "we can gladly do it again" does he like me? now it is his turn to ask me to do something isn't is? oh and we don't have each others number so we can only communicate through facebook but he isn't very active on there...
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reader, you are not alone  +, writes (13 June 2012):
First dates can be confusing. Yours seemed to have gone on pretty well but one has to be carefull not to read too much of the others good manners. Dates can either be too promising or less promising but i think in this situation, if he truely enjoyed your company he will find you again....Guys like the chase, i hear, so you dont want to be too forward. Am sure when you meet up again planned or not you will then know if he likes you ar not.
Try having a group thing next time, that's if you cant help finding out sooner if he likes you...The other girl he knows, try organizing something with her and some more mates. Situations with more people can be more relaxing :)
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