A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ok so im 17 and i have not had a girlfriend before, i have girls that are friends just not ones i am romantically inclined towards. About 18 months ago i met a girl through doing sport and other things and i just seemed to click with her. We get on great, we always laugh with each other, spend lots of time together and i have always thought since we met that she fancied me. I only started really liking her a couple of months ago. Her and her mum have been on holiday with me and my family and we all had great fun. I see them maybe 3-4 times a week and text her quite a bit. My problem is that she is 5 years younger than me. Let me emphasize i want nothing sexual until much later (jus so u know age of consent here is 16). We arent going out but i dont know what to do because i have never got on so well with a girl before and i just feel that we get on so well. I dont want to spoil our friendship but i also know i dont want to see her go by and end up with someone else. Im not quite sure if she is hinting or nor, she is quite happy to touch me when we are talkin or watever and when i see her our eyes meet all the time. Her friends seem to me to nudge her when they see me bt i cant be sure. Plz help me what should i do? I would love to go out with her but i dont want anything sexual and i dont want to break my relationship with her or her mum who i also get on great with. Thx
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (14 January 2008):
 Just enjoy and have fun and don't spoil the beauty of this relationship by being romantic with her. It would alter the situation and you may lose the magic you have now with her.Do not worry if she is somebody's because you cannot stop it.Whatever happens will happen . Live for today and make hay while the sun shines.
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