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male
age
36-40,
*lonzo
writes:Don't know what to do? I have been dating this girl for almost a year! We live in the same town! In fact she lives about couple of blocks away from me! We spend almost every weekend together! But most of that time we will be fighting! I told her yesterday that I might be leaving for a job I got! Its going to be out of town! Its a job for six months! She knows how much I need this job! There's just couple of problems! She don't trust me, and I'm scared that she will be going out here! Ans I don't trust her! There's no reason why I shouldn't trust her! So what can I do to make it work out whenever I leave to work? She said that she could go visit me and I can try 2 come! Reply to this Question
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reader, Azula  +, writes (9 July 2009):
 Trust is very important to a relationship, it is the main root of staying last together.
If there's no reason hot to trust her then why can't you? It only means that you are afraid of something and that something also made her not to trust you. If you can't manage to trust each other well communication is one of the key.
My friend of mine went abroad for almost 3 years and now she left again for another 2 years. Their not still married and don't have plans yet. I've been a witnessed to their long distance relationship and communication is one of the major reason of their staying together.
There are a lot of means to stay up and be in touch together.
I hope none of you will think that the other is cheating because your far from each other.
Good luck and wish you the best.
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