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writes:I went out with my best friend for only 2 day... then we realized that we were better as friends. But lately we aren't as close of friends as we used to be. How do I get the relationship back to normal?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2007): thank you 4 everything... im gonna try your advice, i hope we'll work things out.
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reader, mitch  +, writes (26 April 2007):
You might not be able to i'm afraid... you've changed things even by being together for only two days (heck i should know - 9 hours is enough for things to change for the worse forever), opened feelings to eachother. This will always be in the background between you two...
I guess its the risk you take, and perhaps here it hasn't worked. Perhaps just take a little break (even from being friends) for a little, and then just slowly start being friends again. time is a good healer, and maybe it will make those 2 days fade into the background, and you and your friend can start getting back to being good mates.
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reader, lupa-k +, writes (26 April 2007):
Perhaps because trying to take things further than friendships, it has opened up feelings within one or both of you that can make the friendship awkward. Is it possible that one of you wants to be more than that? Or that there is awkwardness over the way things ended?
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reader, XXpussycatXX +, writes (26 April 2007):
hya hun
for some reasons when you tend to take the next step with one of your friends that when you finish it just seems to be downhill but this is such a odd situation because you was only togrther for two days but you need to speak to your friend and ask tell him that nothing has changed and that you want to go backk like the way you was before you got together it may feel awkward but dont worry bout it if you two can sort it out then you will be like bezzzie mates all over again hope it helps and good luck
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