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writes: hey my g/f just left me after 5years together after she said she doesn't want to be with me she went straight on anti depressions and has gotten back with her boyfriend before me in a month of us breaking up i try to ask her why she left me and i am being nice to her like i don't care shes with her ex but i do and she changes the subject like i'm deeply in love now i don't know if she just does it to try get me mad but i try to stay calm and she gets so angry at me i just wanted to know how she can get over us being together for 5years so easily and just say things to hurt me when i don't want to her it and now she says she doesn't want to know me ever what should i do when i'm still in love with her
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reader, prttymtlkitty +, writes (3 May 2006):
 I don't know what the circumstances surrounding the break up are, but from what you said she is with someone else and on anti-depressants. Thats a big clue. She is obviously trying to get healthy along with a 'crutch' or some emotional support there. For some reason she finds you as the or part of the problem. Then you go onto say you don't show your true feelings. Doing any kind of pretending right now will probably only make her feel better about the decision she made and make her doubt you more. Seeming like you don't care , then asking how could she not care about 5 yrs together doesn't make much sense now does it. Deep down you both know its a front, especially since she was still talking to you. Maybe she doesn't want to talk to you because of the games. Instead of asking how could she, why not ask where you went wrong? I would give her some time before you approach her again though. Sounds like she is defending her boundaries cause perhaps somehow you crossed the line?
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