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writes: I know it doesn't matter now, because i don't want my ex back because he was abusive on so many levels, but is it true that after u break up they will see their previous ex and possibly hook up with them. He broke up with his ex before me to go out with me and because he was disgusted because she smoked a lot among a lot of other things. Oddly, during our reltionship he said it was sexy when I smoked and pressured me to do it and got mad if i didn't (i am not a smoker). I just don't get it because he broke up with her because she did smoke, then was freaking out if I didn't, when i wasn't even a smoker. Then, a few months before I broke up with him he told me he saw his ex (the one before me) and how she was a lot skinnier and how she had stopped smoking. I know he never broke up with me, like he did her, and he proposed to me, not her, but i can't stop worrying and wondering if he is getting back with her because he misses me now that we are broken up. I know it shouldn't matter who he is with because he was abusive, but do u think he is with her?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (31 January 2008):
 Whatever , he is history to you but out of curiosity, I don't think she will want him back. You have a tinge of regret?
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reader, Miss Stella  +, writes (31 January 2008):
Who gives a shit what or where he is, If you enter a relationship based on a break up with some one else, then you get what you get. Sorry to say. The pattern is there.
Find yourself someone who wants you and leave the past behind......
Take care and find yourself then you will find the right guy.
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (31 January 2008):
 Like you say, it doesn't matter. Be thankful that you're out and don't look back.
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