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A good position for our first intimate encounter? (we are both not virgins)

Q.   i've been friends with this girl for a while now but i think we are ready to get intimate now. i want this to be comfortable, she's definitly not a virgin and i'm not either but what would be a good position to start off with. ladies any help would ...

A.   1 February 2008: You could start with a massage and work your way up from her feet to the top of her legs and by the time you are done she will be wet and excited with pleasure. Then you can move on up and take your time. There is no hurry. Anticipation is very erot... (read in full...)

She wants to start birth control but her mother wont let her

Q.   me and my girlfriend have been having sex for 6 months now and recentley she had to go get the morning after pill due to a split in a condom.i now find it hard to trust a condom in case it splits again, i know the chances are very low but i am ...

A.   31 January 2008: Does her mom want to be a grandmother or something.. Always use a condom regardless. But it is her body and if she wants to go on the pill, she should go to her doctor, there are other forms of birth control also. Just make the appointment. It's... (read in full...)

On facebook I said another girl is more attractive than my girlfriend, now she's dumped me, how can I get her to forgive me?

Q.   Hi, i need a lot of help... About 9 months ago something happened on facebook between me and one of my friends. He told me this one girl was hotter than my girlfriend and i replied yes. It had not occured to me that it would lead me to this ...

A.   31 January 2008: Always remember that we can not take back the words that we say.. Be honest with her and say, hey, ya she is nice looking..but i love you. isnt that enough. It's you that I am with. Doesnt that say something. Its like going to a stripper. No matter ... (read in full...)

Is talking dirty to my college teacher wrong?, I'm 18 he's 31

Q.   I am talking dirty with a teacher and i dont know what i should do? It started last week when i seen him out in a club. We got chatting and then i emailed him via the college and said i was sorry if i said anything i shouldnt because i was so drunk ...

A.   31 January 2008: Bad news. Get out. He is gonna get fired and you are going to loose your education over a fantasy......Its not worth it. He is just playing you and wants in your pants. When he is 70 are you still gonna want to be there? Sorry to be blunt. But ... (read in full...)

My mother married at 19, but says I'm too young to move in with my boyfriend, what gives?

Q.   My grandma(my mothers mom) was married at 16 and had my mom when she was 17. And they had a great life. My mom never thought her mother was too young. My mother is also always telling me about how she started dating my father when she was 19 and ...

A.   31 January 2008: You know, I am a mom too. Your mom is just concerned for you and your safety.. But you are an adult and must move on and learn lifes lesson. If it is a mistake, then you will learn from it. If it was meant to be, then it will last. Do what is best... (read in full...)

My girlfriend has a high sex drive, its driving me crazy, is there something wrong with her?

Q.   this is a question mostly for the ladies- how high is your sex drive? I am asking because I am with a girl who is just about insatiable, we've been going out for three years and she's ALWAYS after sex. All the time! In the beginning we had it two o...

A.   31 January 2008: Hello....She is not acting like a guy.. She is horny, thirsty. and needs affection. Get with the programme. Realise how lucky you are , cause when you dont have it.. You will want it.. And dude..She wants it with you. You have the problem not her.... (read in full...)

We broke up, he was abusive, but do you think he has gone back to his ex

Q.   I know it doesn't matter now, because i don't want my ex back because he was abusive on so many levels, but is it true that after u break up they will see their previous ex and possibly hook up with them. He broke up with his ex before me to go out ...

A.   31 January 2008: Who gives a shit what or where he is, If you enter a relationship based on a break up with some one else, then you get what you get. Sorry to say. The pattern is there. Find yourself someone who wants you and leave the past behind...... Take ... (read in full...)

He abuses me emotionally, But I can't leave him!

Q.   Please help me. I'm desperate. I am so in love with my bf, I mean I have never been in love like I am now, but things have happened, I should leave him. Things have turned so nasty between us, but I am so in love, I can't actually tell the diff...

A.   31 January 2008:  I was there for 22 years. Break it off now!! I thought I was in love too and couldnt live with out him, but it is what he wants you to believe. I was told that i was fat, stupid, couldnt even get a job, worthless, but i was good enough to cater to... (read in full...)

Should I give blow jobs at parties because all my friends do it?

Q.   i am 16 and go to quite a lot of parties with people my age (house parties) whenever i go all my friends go and give head (blow jobs) and seem to think nothing of it. and some of then often have the favour returned. i am th eonly one who doesn't ...

A.   31 January 2008: Whatttttt are you thinking?, Are you serious. What is a matter with you kids these days. If I stick a needle in my arm, are you gonna do it too?. Come on. Have some self worth, you sound better than the rest. And save your talents for that one ... (read in full...)

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