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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:me and my ex have been in a relationship for 2 years before we broke up. the break up was a very very bad one. however, we talk and still take trips together. she still buy me things. she say she cant forgive me for the past and want to move on.she say she still love me but cant let of what happen. some days she enjoy my company and other days she cant stand to be around me. she said, she hurting and miss the reletionship we shared.what should i do? i still love her.
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reader, LostSoul1979 +, writes (19 October 2013):
Sounds to me like she is fighting with her emotions. She still has feelings for you but she can't forgive you for hurting her so badly.
Give it time. I'd maybe even give her some space. A few days. A week even. See how she is. But if you really want this girl you'll wait for her no matter how hard or how tough it gets.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (19 October 2013):
 Suggest couples counselling to her, the situation as it is seems to be getting worse, rather than better.
If you have hurt her and broken her trust it will take a very long time for you to regain that trust.
A professionally trained counsellor may be able to help you both recover and to give you help to recover your relationship.
Good luck
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