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writes:My ex and I broke up a little while ago and he has asked me out a couple of times since but I don't want to go through all the mess all over again. We broke up becuz we argued all the time. My friends don't really like him and say I can do much better but I kinda don't care what they think. I want to give him a chance but not if everything is gonna go back to the way things were and I still get blamed just becuz my parents r strict so I don't know if I should give him another chance or not?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the help. I haven't made my final decision but by the way things are goin I'm goin 2 move on.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (16 August 2010):
 For every success story like xAx, there are at least 100 where it ends the same way it did the previous time. My rule for my relationships is: If we break up, it's over, for good. I've broken that rule a couple of times and it always ended the same way it did the first time. My vote would be to move on.
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reader, xAx  +, writes (16 August 2010):
 I have been in your exact situation. My ex and i always argued. We were like a married couple. I gave my ex a chance and we've never been so happy. Things can get better over time. That break from eachother did us good. I think you should give it another go at the relationship until you truely can say that you tried your best. You'll both have to work at sorting your issues though. After you both know eachother really well, you'll know how to act and how to not act around eachother.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2010): First of all, listen to your friends. If they think you can do better, then you CAN!
And yes, you should give him up. You broke up, you're done. Tell him no thanks. If it starts again, it WILL just end again, probably with you even more hurt.
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