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We broke and decided to be sex buddies. But we stopped as he has a new gf, now! Why am I upset about this?

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Question - (20 October 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 October 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

Hey Everyone,

I've been friends with the guy for about 5-6 months. In the beginning we were getting to know each other and I decided that we should just stay friends because He seemed like he was the playa type. Anyway, four months later our friendship is really good, we talk everyday, and spend the weekend together. We decided to sleep together, and if all went well we'd be each others booty call buddies. This went on for about a few weeks, we dated other people but slept with each other. Last night he calls telling me that we can't continue sleeping together because now he has a girl friend and wanted to make sure that I wasn't mad or upset about it. At first i wasn't upset about it, but now I'm bothered by it because he dates girls who have baby dada drama and he ends up always getting hurt. Why am I upset with all of this if I really dont want anything more than a friendship with him. Any Suggestions?

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A female reader, Ne'cee +, writes (20 October 2006):

Ne'cee agony auntunfortunately women relate sex to love and emotion and men relate sex to sex. You feel that way because although you werent really together, you both shared something. Now you see that as another woman has what was yours . Although he told you in a civil manner, you still have emotions there you may not want to admit. The fastest way to get over a man is to get under another. Good luck

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